Micro-Manage


Yikes!! Do we really think we actually have control of another human being? 

Sometimes someone will play along and let you think you have them under control, but the truth is no one can control anyone. It is all smoke and mirrors, illusion.

Doubt, fear and making that person think they owe us something, giving, giving, giving ourselves over to them so they feel guilty about trying to separate and individualize. There are so many forms of micro-managing.

“Remember just because someone is opinionated doesn’t mean they are controlling. A good test to tell the difference between someone who is just very opinionated or controlling is if they willingly accept or tolerate differences between you and them and don’t try to change any part of your core person or personality.”

So complicated.

We are free and have free choice and that is what is so cool about being human.

Claim your power!

Go Ahead!

Big Boys

Complete Control 1983


3 Comments on “Micro-Manage”

  1. Anonymous says:

    wow. did i need this today. thank you!

  2. Anonymous says:

    i have to keep reading this over and over.
    thank you

  3. Sober Driver says:

    I know, right? me too…


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