Really LOVE THIS MOVIE!
What I loved the most is the truth of the human experience.
At the end of the day all we have left is moi’ and that awesome!
EVERYTHING MUST GO
Based on a short story by Raymond Carver
All the buzz in recovery world.
Will Ferrell is da man. J’dore
People of the Lie
A book by Scott Peck
Ok this book is starting to freak me out.
Here are some quotes, but basically, Scott Peck is saying,”Evil people are so strong-willed that they will not submit to a power greater than themselves. They are self-will run riot, running the show, some in the guise of “helping or protecting others” they have a major disguise.
“Malignant narcissism is characterized by an unsubmitted will. All adults who are mentally healthy submit themselves one way or another to something higher than themselves, be it God or truth or love or some other ideal….They believe in what is true rather than what they would like to be true.
In summary, to a greater or lesser degree, all mentally healthy individuals submit themselves to the demands of their own conscience. Not so the evil, however….They are men and women of obviously strong will, determined to have their own way. Such people literally live “in a world of their own” in which the self reigns supreme.”
The poor in spirit do not commit evil. Evil is not committed by people who feel uncertain about their righteousness, who question their own motives, who worry about betraying themselves. The evil in this world is committed by the spiritual fat cats, by the Pharisees of our own day, the self-righteous who think they are without sin because they are unwilling to suffer the discomfort of significant self-examination.”
“The Narcissist: Self Image of Perfection Utterly dedicated to preserving their self-image of perfection, the evil are unceasingly engaged in the effort to maintain the appearance of moral purity. They worry about this a great deal. They are acutely sensitive to social norms and what others might think of them. Outwardly they seem to live lives that are above reproach. The words “image.” “appearance,” and “outwardly” are crucial to understanding the morality of the evil.”
Symbiotic relationship Another form of devastation that narcissistic intrusiveness can create is the symbiotic relationship. “Symbiosis”–as we use the term in psychiatry–is not a mutually beneficial state of interdependence. Instead it refers to a mutually parasitic and destructive coupling. In the symbiotic relationship neither partner will separate from the other even though it would obviously be beneficial to each if they could.
I doubt that it is possible for two utterly evil people to live together in the close quarters of a sustained marriage. They would be too destructive for the necessary cooperation….In every evil couple, if we could examine them closely enough, I image we would find one partner at least slightly in thrall to the other. For adults to be the victims of evil, they too must be powerless to escape….They may be powerless by virtue of their own failure of courage….bound by chains of laziness and dependency. “
Sympathy for the Devil 1969 Altamont